Hello, I am very confused right now. I am only a little over a month pregnant. I am not with nor have ever been with the "father" of the baby.
I told him a few weeks ago I was pregnant, he didn't have much to say. He said he'd call me back, I haven't heard from him. I tried calling him again but no luck...
I found out he has 2 other children, 1 he "takes care" of 1 he doesn't. I don't know many of the particulars there other than the 1st (the one he is a disney dad to) is btwn 8-10 & the 2nd (he doesn't see) is a baby, no older than 2.
I am 32, live on my own & have a full time job. I have yet to tell my parents, & I am soo nervous about that.
I guess my questions would be how much do I need to try to get in contact with him? Or do I let it go & raise this baby on my own-- completely? Or do I go the route of seeking at least child support?
Also any advice in breaking the news to my parents would be helpful... (keep in mind I am the youngest in an Italian, over protective fam).
thanx in advance for any help!Answer Question
Answer by Bugzmomma at 6:34 PM on May. 4, 2011
Answer by campbellb3421 at 6:39 PM on May. 4, 2011
Answer by BradenIsMySon at 6:44 PM on May. 4, 2011
Answer by Nicoles2LilRams at 6:50 PM on May. 4, 2011
If you want this guy in your life & the babies life forever then pursue child support. You come from an Italian family that is close I suspect so You have all the support you need right there. They may freak out in the begining but Hey! It's a Grandchild for them! They will probably be happy & not show you it & when that baby is born, he/she will be their everything! Good Luck & make an appt. with your OBGYN asap & take Prenatal Vitamins. I have an Italian family too. They will give you the guilt but be very happy in the end! :)
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