why is it that the men that treat us like shit and hurt us so bad are the ones we fall harder for? When u break up with them u miss them the most, more then any other man in the past.....? this is the way i feel about my ex...he was abusvie and mean, he is with another woman now and it kills me to think about....my friends that know him says he treats her like a queen....makes me think what was wrong with me that he treated me the way he did! i have a new bf now been together 5 mos but still think about my ex....idk why, new bf is the man of my dreams but i cant get out of the past!
Asked by Anonymous at 7:15 PM on May. 4, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by yesmaam at 8:19 AM on May. 5, 2011
I guess I just hate the blanket statements.
Had you said.... I am having a hard time getting my very abusive ex-boyfriend out of my mind when I found a nice guy... does anyone have any suggestions. I could have given a better response. But when you make ALL of us look like idiots... i take offense.
I suppose my response would be.... until you are a whole person, capable of standing up for what you deserve (specially since you are a mom and responsible to teach another human being about life) you should stay away from men and work on parenting and yourself). How unbelievably hurtful would it be to your current bf to find out you are still hung up on a man who was abusing you.
Answer by Anonymous at 7:31 PM on May. 4, 2011
You know... Im sorry... I guess I was a bit rude.
Im dealing with an unbelievable wussy woman right now in my own life and I guess the idea of a woman who wont stand up for herself is just realllly getting on my nerves... it is MY hang up not yours.
Im sorry I was rude.
Answer by Anonymous at 7:35 PM on May. 4, 2011
Answer by diana398 at 7:16 PM on May. 4, 2011
"we"... who is this we??? I think the issue is with the people who fall under your term of "we".
"I" have NEVER found a man like that attractive. I know I deserve more, I would never lower my standards that far. I would never allow a man boy to treat me that way.
Answer by Anonymous at 7:25 PM on May. 4, 2011
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