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I'm pregnant, but the baby's father is a total jerk and has dissociative personality disorder ( he was abused as a kid) disorder and depression

How do I tell him I'm pregnant? :(

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Asked by Anonymous at 4:45 AM on May. 5, 2011 in Pregnancy

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  • On the phone.Sorry for being intrusive but if he's such a jerk why tell him at all?

    Answer by LadyMitres at 4:55 AM on May. 5, 2011

  • Just food for thought.

    Answer by LadyMitres at 4:56 AM on May. 5, 2011

  • its a pretty bad prob your man has i just been reading about it . i just go ahead and tell him and show him test i dont think there gona be an easy way to do this but you may find he takes to it well . how ever you need to make shore your safe as people with these conditions can be unpredictable if your worried have a friend or family member there . i tell him somewhere possible public in case he takes it bad so you can get away from him i don't know him as a person but i am reading the symptoms so that's what i have to go by. also if he has a phyc i tell them if you can so they know whats going on and can help him . phyc's cant tell you info but you just be telling them your info so that's ok

    you may need to de a dna test as may of the simptums indcate he may not belive you otherwise


    Answer by feralkitten at 4:57 AM on May. 5, 2011

  • I know I'm probably going to get vote downs for this answer but I wouldn't tell him at all and if I did I'd make sure as heck he wasn't in the child's life unless he was under serious medical help. Your child will need stability. Good luck.

    Answer by aishanabuaisha at 5:04 AM on May. 5, 2011

  • Before I say anything...I am soooo sorry. I couldn't imagine what that feels like.

    I'm not sure I would tell him at all. Hes unstable, and a jerk on top of that. I mean, if you're with him, like hes your boyfriend, then yeah maybe tell him, but I would do it in a public place, in case anything bad happens. But if you aren't with him, and don't plan on seeing him again...don't tell him.

    Answer by monstersmommy20 at 2:41 AM on May. 6, 2011

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