admit to himself that he is not in love with me? I have been in love with this man since I was 13 years old and before we got together he was very often mean to me. I think that is partly why he stays with me because he feels guilty for how he used to treat me. I also think he stays with me because of our children. I honestly think maybe he is in love with someone else and as much as I hate the thought of that, I'm tired of standing in the way of his happiness. I know he isn't happy with me but I could NEVER bring myself to leave. I love him too much. My heart is breaking. I don't know how I could live without him but I feel so guilty knowing that I'm wasting his time and standing in the way of his true happiness. He tells me he loves me but only if I say it first. I can tell by the way he looks at me he doesn't feel it.
Asked by Anonymous at 4:46 AM on May. 5, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by firepony at 5:04 AM on May. 5, 2011
Answer by tootoobusy at 4:58 AM on May. 5, 2011
Answer by Ashes0813 at 5:03 AM on May. 5, 2011
I agree with firepony, you need to just talk to him, get it out in the open! Explain to him how much you love him but you need for him to be completely honest. also explain that if you are not" the one" that he wants to be with, then you'd rather know the truth then live a lie. You, also need to prepare yourself that there is the possibility he may just see "that's his way out" and take it! I'm sure this is very painful for you but I myself would have to know too! I wouldn't stay with a man that didn't feel the same way I do. Sorry for your pain!
Answer by anichols1 at 6:03 AM on May. 5, 2011
Answer by hopeandglory53 at 8:57 AM on May. 5, 2011
Answer by tasches at 1:52 PM on May. 5, 2011
Answer by dwmom2008 at 9:04 AM on May. 5, 2011
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