I've been with my husband for 12 years. Three years ago, he admitted to several affairs, which I foolishly tried to move past (mostly because I had no job at the time and was afraid I could not support our kids) Ive tried for three years to get past this, but he hasn't made it easy. He gets too close to female friends, is back into porn, and is constantly trying to push our sexual boundries (even to include other people)
Point is, finally I have had enough. I've told him I'm leaving, and his idea of "fighting for me" is driving me nuts. We are going back and forth over arrangements for our kids, I work nights and he work days and we have no clue how we will get them from one house to the other between jobs- and this is slowing things down considerably.
Has anyone else done this? How on earth did you do it?? How did you work up the courage to finally say so long and move on with your life?
Asked by Anonymous at 1:07 PM on May. 5, 2011 in Relationships
Get a sitter!! Good luck hun... you'll be better off in the long run once you are away from it all!
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