last fall i became a sub in a group that gets together once a month , i've tried to be gracious, giving and helped when asked to . i was recently asked to host for a member of the group(the member asked me) and graciously i agreed. i guess the problem i am having dealing with it is that a few of these women have spoken alot of empty words to me, example playing bridge, getting together etc, but there has never been any follow thru or even a mention of the bridge thing, i don't want to be pushy because i feel they should be the ones telling me about these things since they bring it up, usually the next thing i hear about it is they're playing and i find i haven't been included. honeslty, they leave me out of just about everything unless they need a sub. i'm felling more like a social outcast and insignificant unless my help is needed and then i feel like i'm invisible when the help isn't needed or the task is done. i am really trying to understand all of this and not jump to conclusions, at the same time was my being asked to host when normally they trade off just apity ask. any ideas or thoughts would be appreciated. i don't want to thin badly of some of these women when i should'nt.Answer Question
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