It’s been like five years. a guy I dated for a little over a year, still calls me every evening. it didn't really bother me until the other day when he was telling me about an old friend he added to his facebook and the next day, called me earlier then usual to let me know, where he was before his cell phone battery died.
It just hit me a few hours later after the call - as to why did he felt he had to explain adding a female to his facebook page, I'd told him, that was great that that what facebook was for - finding old friends, etc..
I have thought about asking, why do you still call me, etc? or even asking him to stop. I can't or maybe I should. I was the one who broke off the relationship and I can't bring myself to hurt him again. HE is a great friend, we see each every working day, as we work in the same building.
What to do?
I've debated with myself over the years if I'd want a relationship with him again or not - he is almost 15 years older. I do care for him and worry about him. He tells me when he'll be out of town, where he's going, etc
I don't know. it does bother me that he still calls sometimes but maybe I'd miss him call and hearing his voice. We left things, with maybe someday, we'd be back together. It's been almost five years.
I guess my fear is that I could be leading him on? I can't hurt him, again. He is a very special guy. At this point in my life, I'm happy alone caring for my kids. He knows this and says he understands.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:47 PM on May. 5, 2011 in Relationships
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