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the idea of having sex with my husband does absolutely nothing for me. he wanted to last night and i just told him how tired i was and not in the mood. of course he was upset but he has turned me down countless times and of course when he's not in the mood it's suppose to be all gravy! i guess im turned off because he's not a giver. he's very selfish and only cares about his own orgasm. we've only been married 2 years and this didn't start til about a year ago. he hasn't gone down on me since like the first week we got married. he has only gone long enough during sex to give me the big O once since our marriage. at first it was ok, but slowly it got old, and now to the point i don't even desire him. he expects me to blow him before sex everytime and then just lays on top of me before i'm even wet, god forbid he do something to get me going too. i know me being so turned off by him is a problem, but i don't know how to fix it. he just flat out refuses to be a better lover. and i think it is affecting us in other ways too, i find myself easily annoyed by him constantly and snap at him a lot.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:34 AM on May. 6, 2011 in Relationships
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