She can be a good person, I know it. But I am so sick of the way she acts when it comes to her kids and grandchildren. Her daughter is the favorite always has been this way but I am sick of seeing my husband get treated this way. They are having a birthday party for her at a nice restaurant tonight and I had to say no. I am sick of it they haven't been to neither of my sons birthday parties and they didn't come to dh's nor have they done anything for any of his birthdays since we got together. For my baby showers we got 2 or 3 dollar tree things from her, which doesn't bother me i don't mind getting gifts like that that isn't the point, the point is his sister is pregnant with a "nigger baby" (mil's words not mine i despise that she calls this poor baby that) she gets a 5 pound bag of stuff ordered from jc penny's and a new crib. this is just some of the things she does. What irritates me the most is she has custody of her duaghters 2 kids and she plays the favorite game with them. The older one can do no wrong he is a saint the younger one is always in trouble. The older one just got a very nice and expensive bedroom suite but asking for ppl to give her a bed for the other one. What do i do? What do I say? or do i just sit back and leave it be. I am just tired of my children and husband getting treated like crap while they get the royal treatment. Especially when my husband works hard and is a very good man yet his sister is a drug addict who ran out on her children and is pregnant yet again.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:12 PM on May. 6, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by yesmaam at 1:17 PM on May. 6, 2011
Answer by amber710 at 1:20 PM on May. 6, 2011
Answer by firethearson at 1:28 PM on May. 6, 2011
Okay let me be devils advocate here I get nothing from my mom and neither do my kids when we get something its five or ten bucks and when its all said and done she gives my brothers everything. Sometimes the people who do the most work and can take care of their own get nothing the person who is the laziest or most unwilling can get the most. Sometimes not a compliment but your mil's way of taking responsibility your sil will not take. It made no sense until my father said this to me and just take it with a grain of salt. "Just because they get stuff handed to them does not mean they are the better or more loved child it just means you are doing your job providing for yourself and family. At first I was mad but after I realized how spoiled my brother truly was.
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 1:33 PM on May. 6, 2011
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Answer by EJKZ at 1:53 PM on May. 6, 2011
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Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 1:57 PM on May. 6, 2011
Next question overall
How many animals do you have and what are they? would you get more?