My sister once dated a disgusting man, and unfortunatly he became the father of her adorable little boy.
He treated her horrible ... he abused her in everyway and it got to a point to where she just couldnt do anything ( she became so emotionally drained ) and checked herself into a hospital ( she stayed for less than a month ) .. HE was no where to be found ( he must of thought the cops would be looking for him because we had alot of proof of how he treated her ) ....My mom and I took care of my nephew during this time
She got out and was like a new person ... She was back to being a wonderful mom and person. It only took her 2 weeks to find a good job and then a house for her and her little boy . After hearing of her good job ( it was literally the next day after he found out she had a job) he went and filed for custody and to get child support.
This is a man who doesnt work, who lives with whatever will take him in, we had pictures and statements from several people, and 3 police reports of how he abused her, my mom and I even gave a statement that we took care of him and he was no where.
The onyl thing he had to "prove" that he was a better parent was that she checked herself into that hospital ....
and that was IT ... HE got custody.. thank god he does have a decent mother though and we KNOW that his mother is the one actually taking care of my nephew ( she lets us see him all the time too ) ... But it is so disgusting, we KNOW he does drugs, we know he drinks heavily and drives, we know how he lives off of everything and everyone.... my sister has never done drugs and the only time she has ever drank was one year at Thanksgiving we had some wine, her only problem is she met a monster who hurt her so badly she needed medical help . and now she has to pay him "child support" and he doesnt even take care of his child.
And now today i was on Facebook and noticed he had commented on a mutals friends status .. The girl on my list is selling a large snake ( we went to school together so I dont know that much about her ) .... and he commented on it with this reply " i dont know if I can buy that snake now because my child support was lowered, and I already told my friend that i will pay him to fix up my car, if you can wait until july i can buy the snake though"
Can you believe that... he annoucing to everyone that he spends the child support on himself !!!
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