Okay No need to bash I swear Ive done nothing wrong..
My son was born with some kidney issues and ended up in the hospital when he was just a few days old with some major issues. He did everything late crawled walked potty trained.. u name it he did late. So in Kinder and from his doctor I had him evaluated. the results were... Hes normal there's nothing wrong.. Not a single thing. So this year in first grade he got a teacher who would write my son up.. all the time.. no kidding it was just about everyday. Yes, Ive noticed he had issues listening to me and talking back and ended up with discipline actions. Yes I spank my kids but its gotta pretty bad usually its a corner maybe reading a book or time out.. (which is laying in there bed with no tv music or anything) Well every time my son gets in trouble from the school he got punished.. Punished for what had happened and because hes coming home early and not being sick. Well He freaked out yesterday and told someone that I beat him with a spatula and that my husband beats him with his belt and that my husband said if he got in trouble again he was going to bleed everywhere. So Social services came as soon as the kids were picked up from school. Made me feel like a horrible mother Ugh.. I do not beat my children however I believe in a good spanking.
During this whole mess My son told the worker IM just going to snap my fingers... As if he wanted to get rid of her. So she told me I needed to get him help cause there's something wrong with him and that I should have done so already. I asked her if she wanted to read the reports from last year she told me NO. Ive tried every form of discipline I can think of Ive got 2 girls that don't have this issue.. My son does talk about crazy things and pretty graphic but Im usually around to tell him to knock it off. This time its gotten far and I cant seem to get any help. We have poor insurance from my husbands work and all the places Ive called today just seems to tell me do this do that,,,, He doesn't have friends cause they all say hes weird so he gets along with girls. Is this because his Bio dad was never around and I was a single mom forever? What do I do with a child that has a strong imagination.
I know for a fact my husband has never mistreated him in anyway. We are very strict parents when it comes to school and fun. Im just not sure where to go with this. In the mean time Cps keeps calling and checking on me to make sure Im finding him help. I don't know anyone in this town and Im to the point Im frustrated. Mental health department just seemed to give me the run around.. Advice please. I don't wanna lose my kids they are my world.. Ive gotta help them so we can put this behind us!
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