My sister is being such a brat! She is getting married in less than 2 months... and so far she has been acting so immature, lazy, irresponsible and disrespectful...mainly towards our mother.When my sisters fiance came home from Afghanistan (she knew him 2 weeks before he left) she left my moms house, and all her stuff behind...and has not been back since. She did not invite anyone, except my step-mom to get her wedding dress with her. My moms feelings were very much hurt, as she was wanting to be involved in that part. My sister has completely shut my mom out... and my mom has planned the entire wedding thus far. She has hand made all the decorations, and my sister would not help. My mom made all of the 200 invitations (I helped!!), and my sister did not help. A few days ago, my sister told my mom that my mothers lifelong friend, a woman who we have grown up with as a second mom basically and her kids are like siblings to us, is not allowed to come to the wedding bc Ty cheated on her fiance with the womans son many many months ago!! Originally, she was supposed to marry them to! At this point, my mom became furious with my sister, told her that the boy will not even be in the state during the wedding, and their mistake has nothing to do with HER and the other family members! My mom told her that she needs to grow up, be more respectful etc. Well, now my sister refuses to talk to my mom. It is so sad. I can tell my mom is so sad. She has tried to call my sister etc... I feel like I need to say something to my sister, not today...its her bridal shower. My mom is going, but sister still hasn't talked to her. But really, at some point someone needs to tell her how her behavior is affecting our mom...but Im not sure if I would be out of place trying to talk to her about this. Any advice would help, thank you!
Answer by gemgem at 2:54 PM on May. 7, 2011
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Answer by Ksmomma30 at 6:00 PM on May. 7, 2011
I wouldn't even go to her shower the way she has been acting. Holy bat mobile. I would tell her how I feel, and leave it at that. I wouldn't even go to the wedding with what you say here. You just don't treat people that way.
Answer by Christine0813 at 2:57 PM on May. 7, 2011
Answer by matobe at 3:00 PM on May. 7, 2011
Answer by ItsMe89 at 3:07 PM on May. 7, 2011
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Answer by ItsMe89 at 3:15 PM on May. 7, 2011