Okay this goes out to all you married mommys out there.. My marriage is going down the toilet. it never seems to be going right every time it starts to seem like we are having a good time.. I get yelled at for giving attitude when im not.. I suffer from depression and yet my husband doesn't seem to care.. every time im down he keeps bugging me asking me whats the matter when in fact nothing is the matter im just depressed. but appernetly I have to have a reason to be depressed.. i cry myself to sleep almost every night not knowing whats the matter with me.. my husband tells me we have to get counsling and i do agree however the way hes coming off is as if im at fault forever single thing that goes wrong.. I got a job to support my family yet it doesnt seem enough to him.. when i get home i cook i clean i take care of our son.. and it always turns into a fight when i ask him to help me with changing our sons diaper or grabing something out of the cabinet cause im in the middle of stirring something on the stove and dont want it to burn.. he always makes it seem that i am wasting his time.. or he gets pissed for me pulling him away from his damn computer game..
I am really lost and I dont even want to celebrate mothers day tomorrow since i know i will just be treated like shit by him.. i will still have to get up and cook and clean and take care of our son. i swear i feel like im the only one in this marriage that cant have feeling that cant take a break or anything.. I never do anything right.. I need some guidince with this please help me!!!
A Mother that dosent know what to do. and doesnt want to celebrate mothersday
Asked by Anonymous at 4:33 PM on May. 7, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 4:36 PM on May. 7, 2011
Answer by GothicChk52 at 4:37 PM on May. 7, 2011
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Answer by rinamomof2 at 4:43 PM on May. 7, 2011
I know how hard it can be when people around you don't understand what depression is... to them it's a situational thing that you can snap out of by changing the situation. The truth is some depression is of a chemicle nature and can't be changed without medications and even then...some depression can still linger. Your husband may not understand that and perhaps a therapist or councelor can help him to. It could be that he feels like he's failing you because of the depression you feel...even if you tell him otherwise. You sound like you do a lot of things that are difficult on you just to make him happy...and that you're struggling to keep it all going. For most people those things are not hard...but when you're depressed...they can feel impossible. I hope you get to feeling better.
Answer by CallMeAngie at 4:46 PM on May. 7, 2011
Answer by Momchipomkids at 5:00 PM on May. 7, 2011