I am so stressed out right now because my so decided he doesn't want to celebrate mothers day with his mom this year. Since I've known him (3 years) his family has all given him grief but no one worse than his mother. Before his parents divorced she wasnt so bad, but after the papers where final she went crazy. She claimed she didnt have enough money to get her own place so she moved in with us and we've been supporting her for a year(if you're wondering yes she works-fulltime at that). Before we lived together she was civil with me but now she flat out hates me. She told my s/o she's supposed to be the 'woman of the house' and that i just flat out disrespect her because I cook/buy my own food and won't eat what she cooks (which is the same thing every Sunday). Her treatment towards my S/o though is far worse, she curses him out, calls him nasty names, and threatens him when he doesn't do what she tells him, in other words, she's spoiled. Just this morning she rang the door bell repeatedly at 7am to wake us up because she locked herself out (one time wouldn't have done justice) and told him she didnt care about us being sleep. When her birthday comes everyone makes a big deal because if they don't she will cry and throw a fit about it. My S/O said hes had enough. He's not doing it anymore. I don't blame him but I know this is going to cause problems in our home. I'm 8 months preg. and I dont need the extra stress, things have been pretty calm lately and I want them to stay that way. I thought about sneaking and buying her a card, but I dont want him to get upset with me. She's been staying here for so long, so I don't think we can flat put her out. I don't know what to do. We we're planned on moving but his dad was helping us, but now he might not when he finds out my S/O didnt buy her anything. I don't know what to do. I'm so worried his reluctance to please her will backfire.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:17 PM on May. 7, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by pocmom at 10:09 PM on May. 7, 2011
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Answer by Olivia4116 at 9:38 PM on May. 7, 2011
Sounds like you can't win no matter what you do!! It really sucks dealing with drama queens like that... I'd let her know, well I'd have her son let her know what your plan is for the future asap, so that she can start planning to get her own place. Be prepared for her to through a fit, and to distance yourselves from her if you need to.
Answer by skittles1108 at 9:25 PM on May. 7, 2011
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