Last night, DH and I had an argument/discussion about our relationship and he said we have nothing in common (because eight years of our lives, two children, similar upbringings, and mutual tastes in music and movies don't apparently count...)
I wanted to keep talking but he said he had to sleep and rolled over to start snoring. By that time, it was after 4a. An hour later, his phone rings and it's a police officer telling him his business has been broken into so he left to deal with that and came home an hour and a half later and went to bed.
Around 2.30p he got up and went to his business (a partner had been working there all morning). Around 5ish I texted him and asked what he wanted for dinner. He said fish and rice. We usually eat late and he wasn't going to be home until after 9p, so I started cooking around 8.30p.
After getting everything cooked, I texted that it was done and sat down with DD1 to eat. After we were done eating, I fed DD2 some baby food and a bottle and then got both girls into bed.
I called DH and asked him if he was going to be home anytime soon and he said he was having a business meeting with the two partners, so I wrapped his plate up in plastic and put it in the fridge.
DH didn't get home until 2.30a, and brought with him some leftovers from a local diner. He'd gone there with the partners (after he knew I had dinner waiting at home) because they'd all gotten hungry after their meeting. After the diner, he'd driven one of the partner's home because that guy doesn't drive (he'll be thirty this year and never got a license...).
By the time DH got home, I was kind of peckish again, so when he offered me his leftover cheesy fries and BLT burger I gobbled it down. I didn't ask who paid for the meal. I'm choosing to assume it was either out of the business account or his partners' wallets because we can't afford to be dining out right now.
I don't like arguing with DH and tend to just avoid it even when I want to speak up about something. He wasn't home at night for the past few years because of a graveyard shift job. Now that he can be home at night, he's choosing not to be in favor of diners and pool halls with his business partners. The partners are just two guys he's been friends with for a while who help him run the business. Even though he's calling these late nights business meetings, I feel like he's just using that as an excuse to not come home.
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