Have you had open communication with them since they were small? Have you encouraged them to come to you with anything, questions, feelings etc, do they feel like they can come to you or are they expecting you to blow up? If you havent, its going to be harder for you to start now if your child is a teenager, I am just guessing here as I dont know age. I know it can be hard to keep your cool with something like this, but if you want your child to be honest with you you have to try to keep calm and listen, and try to find out the reason WHY they are doing drugs if they do admit to it, if you can get to the reason behind the behavior you will understand more and know more of how to help your child, try to keep your anger and hurt to yourself initially as much as you can and ensure your child you are their for them and that you want to help If your child does admit to it you then have to get them the help they need. Good Luck!
at 3:57 AM on May. 9, 2011