you give up and start dating or do you wait until it is final?
He had uncontested paperwork for a year (we both agreed to the terms and he wouldn't sign)
I filed for divorce through a lawyer in January and he left the country for a year due to his job a week later and is stalling it until he returns..
Would you just say enough is enough and start dating?
My kids are 2 and 5, we have been "married" for 8 years now but haven't lived together for a year and a half (not due to his job, just separation).
Asked by Anonymous at 8:34 AM on May. 9, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by samurai_chica at 8:48 AM on May. 9, 2011
Answer by Imortlmommy at 8:38 AM on May. 9, 2011
I am going through a divorce now. In about 2 weeks we will have been separated for 1 year but the divorce will not be final until at least August. I am so over it and am ready to get on with my life and start dating again. However, I believe in my vows regardless of the fact that my stbxh does not deserve my loyalty. I will not date until I am officially single. I have pretty much been with my stbxh since I was 14 but married for 9 years.
Answer by KyliesMom5 at 8:43 AM on May. 9, 2011
Samurai Chica In some states it can be used against you. I live in Virginia which is one of the states that dating before the divorce is final is considered having an affair and can be used against you.
Answer by KyliesMom5 at 8:56 AM on May. 9, 2011
Answer by gemgem at 8:56 AM on May. 9, 2011
Answer by MrsLeftlane at 9:10 AM on May. 9, 2011
Answer by maiahlynn at 8:43 AM on May. 9, 2011
Answer by maiahlynn at 8:45 AM on May. 9, 2011
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