Well my Mom and three siblings are struggling! My Mom works really hard and is 64. My younger sisters give her a hard time. Well the 29 year old works but the 25 year old insists she needs all this work done to make her teeth perfect before getting off her ass and finding a job. I know it is hard in this economy but she has not even looked! She sits at home moping around, hardly cleaning and my brother, (39), has aphasia but he works with my Mom.
I am tired off the fact that one is so lazy and won't get off her @$$ to do anything! Then there is the fact my Mom is 64 again.
She asked to come live with me, but my brother has aphasia and it is a package deal. And my DH won't want to let her come live with us. Because then my siblings think they can just show up. We would not have any control over who thinks they can just show up knocking on our front door. My Mom and brother are always welcome by my DH. But my sisters aren't. All I can do is face the fact my DH does not want to be left taking care of two grown lazy women.
I don't know how to help! I don't have money to give away and they are trying to live in a way beyond their means. It has been hard since my Dad passed last year.
And they live beyond their means still. My younger sister likes to go out and spend money. My youn gest sister sits at home moping, and daydreaming. Their two cell phone bills come to $200.00, because they have the 4G with internet and use it all the time.
I think they need to let certain things go to have their bills lowered.
But still I worry about them. Yet they have things I don't have.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:09 AM on May. 9, 2011 in Relationships
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