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Breastfeeding and sex?

If you exclusively breastfed how did that affect you and your dh/so's sex life immediately PP and in the long run, as far as dryness, milk leaking, etc?

 
mommiewife11

Asked by mommiewife11 at 12:35 PM on May. 9, 2011 in General Parenting

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  • Didn't really affect our sex life- he just couldn't suck on my nipples! Even now, it's been a year since I stopped nursing, and I still have milk, so he has to be careful! My nipples are more sensitive (to pain) than they used to be, which makes him nuts. I agree that becoming a parents has definitely affected our sex life- I don't think it was affected much by breastfeeding. However, I know some women do have a lower sex drive and less natural lubrication while nursing, thanks to the hormones.
    musicpisces

    Answer by musicpisces at 10:40 AM on May. 10, 2011

  • no clue - yet to have sex PP while breastfeeding - it's only been a year lol
    nurse_maya

    Answer by nurse_maya at 12:36 PM on May. 9, 2011

  • It never really effected Hubby and me. i wear a sexy bra and Dont take it off that way i Dont leak all over but other than that minor change it pretty much stays the same.
    michelle.coppes

    Answer by michelle.coppes at 12:40 PM on May. 9, 2011

  • My sex drive remained so low the entire time I was breastfeeding. I don't know if it's hormonal, or if it's just psychological but my sex life never fully returned until after I weaned each baby.
    missanc

    Answer by missanc at 12:45 PM on May. 9, 2011

  • Never really effected us much. After a while I stopped leaking or needing to wear pads.
    daughteroftruth

    Answer by daughteroftruth at 12:51 PM on May. 9, 2011

  • I don't really think nursing affected my sex life, but motherhood sure did!
    Krysta622

    Answer by Krysta622 at 12:55 PM on May. 9, 2011

  • my son is 2 and i honestly can't remember what is was like immediately PP aside from feeling like sand paper the first time, but after that it was ok. this time i am worried about SO much that i wasn't worried about w/ my last pregnancy/pp period.
    mommiewife11

    Comment by mommiewife11 (original poster) at 12:56 PM on May. 9, 2011

  • um, nurse mya... you and your husband havent had sex in a year? I mean 6 weeks is recommended, a year seems a litle extreme!
    JoLee12345

    Answer by JoLee12345 at 2:18 PM on May. 9, 2011