My sister has been married for about 6 yrs but her and husband has an off and on relationship. The past three years when they get in an argument she would pack up and leave and stay with my mom. Everyone in the family would stop what they was doing to help her move out, for her to only move back in the next week. Last year in November she moved out and everyone in our family told her that was the last time we were going to help her. She moved out and a week later she is back over there. Her husband may work 2 months out of the year and refuse to help her where their child is concerned. My aunt came down from NY and my sister gave her this sob story of how she couldn't take living with her husband any more, so my aunt loan her some money to get an divorce(this was 2 1/2 yrs ago). A couple of months ago she quit her job. My mom is paying her rent and providing food for her. The church donated some food to her, but she don't like some of the stuff they donated. Lately she has been coming to my house to mooch off of us. Dh said he would feed her daughter but he is not going to help her. She is taking advantage of mom big time. She is not looking for a job my aunt called and said she needed her money back(sister spent it) so my mom had to write a check out and send it to her. My mom dished out $300 to get her re-certified for medical assistant. She is still sleeping with her husband but refuse to put him on child support and he refuse to help out. My mom only income is SS so she is on a fixed income. We tried to tell her that she need to stop helping her but my mom can't stand for her "baby" to be in a bind. We have been thinking about calling my other sister in the military so she can talk to my mom(mom will only listen an take her advise) but she is going through so much right now(being over 400 troops) that we don't won't to add to her stress. Do you think I should call my sister in the military? This situation has gotten out of hand. My mom can't pay her own bills and she has no food in the house(I have been cooking ans sending her plates) What should I do?
Asked by Anonymous at 1:13 PM on May. 9, 2011 in Relationships
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