I was wondering if anyone would be able to give me some suggestions on where to start with the issue of not desiring sex. This is really taking a toll on our relationship. It all started almost 8 years ago when they removed one of my ovaries during a laporoscopy due to a cyst inside the ovary that had split it open.
I have noticed a very steady decline in my desire for sex and it pretty much became non-existent after I had our DD 3 years ago. I just want to get my desire for activity back with my SO. It is really making him feel like he is less than desirable to me, which is not the case. This issue is all me.
Is there anything that I can do to get my desire back? Do I need to look at supplements that work as HRT (hormone replacement therapy)? BTW I don't have sufficient insurance to actually go to the Dr. over this it is only major medical.
Any suggestions would be more than helpful and I would be willing to try just about anything to make him happy. He doesn't want me to just have sex with him b/c I feel obligated to do so, he wants me to desire having sex. I also want to point out that I am not worried that he would go elsewhere for sex b/c he is not that kind of person--he has been cheated on in the past and doesn't want anyone to ever feel that kind of pain.
Asked by Anonymous at 3:24 PM on May. 9, 2011 in Relationships
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