My dh and his mother (who are not on very good terms) work on the same floor in the same hospital (though they work of different wings so while they have a lot of coworkers who know each other, they don't ever see each other there unless they go out of their way to). I am pregnant and I have posted before if we should tell his mother or just let her hear about it at work. We have decided that we should tell her ourselves BUT my dh doesn't want to tell her until he is ready to tell is coworkers. The reason: the second she finds out, she will tell everyone at work. I am only 7 weeks so we aren't really ready for that, we told my family yesterday (some figured it out before though) but we don't won't to tell his coworkers till I am at least 13 weeks but maybe longer then that. His plan is to tell his coworkers and her on the same day on a day she doesn't work so he will call her after work to tell her. I hate the idea of her finding out on the same day as his coworkers but I understand why, he wants to be the one to tell people and he wants them to know on our time. Would you feel bad in my situation?
Answer by Mrs.B3 at 12:59 AM on May. 10, 2011
Answer by GoodyBrook at 7:02 PM on May. 9, 2011
I agree with your husband. If he feels she would tell everyone when he isnt quite ready then he shouldn't tell her. CONGRATS!!
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