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What is wrong with black guys?

My oldest daughter, Hannah, is dating a wonderful young man, whom she has been dating for half a year. Yes, he is black/ mixed, whatever you want to call it. I was telling my friend Karen about how kind he is, and I showed her a picture of the two at prom. She goes "He's black" I said "your point?" She goes "You let Hannah date colored people?!?" This pissed me off so much, I kicked her out of my house. Why is everyone so racial now? Who cares what color they aree?!? He treats my daughter with respect, thats all IIII care about! I like him, and my husband likes him, so whats with all the racism.? What do you say?? Here is a picture, I think they're cute together!

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Asked by Iloveyou999 at 7:25 PM on May. 9, 2011 in Relationships

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  • cute pic!!

    Answer by dullscissors at 7:26 PM on May. 9, 2011

  • I'm not racist, but does he mind that you are posting his picture on the internet? If that were my kid, I would tell you that I do not allow my kids' picture to be posted anywhere without my permission.

    Answer by m-avi at 7:26 PM on May. 9, 2011

  • they look like an adorable couple!! :)

    Answer by tnm786 at 7:27 PM on May. 9, 2011

  • That's how my parents were. They weren't racist...until I started dating a black guy then they flipped. I don't get it either. Btw, they look very cute together :)

    Answer by AshleyLynnW at 7:27 PM on May. 9, 2011

  • Your "friend" is a jerk!
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    Cute pic!

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 7:27 PM on May. 9, 2011

  • They look adorable!! I would be mad at my friend too!

    Answer by Brandi300 at 7:28 PM on May. 9, 2011

  • Aww., they are cute together. My family had a problem at first with me dating some one outside our race but they are used to him now and love him. People can be blinded stupidly over stereotypes.


    Answer by booger14 at 7:28 PM on May. 9, 2011

  • My husband is mexican. I'm white. One of his best friends is black (and he lives with us right now). So..really..I can't tell you. Guess somebody who has an issue with black guys will have to answer. I know when all 3 of us go somewhere with our kids we get some looks but we just go on about our business (our black friend has a mixed child that comes over to hang out with us).

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:28 PM on May. 9, 2011

  • OMG i hate racism!!!!!!!!!! my parents were raciest against my bf's it pissed me off sooooo bad!!!! and CUTE pic BTW


    Answer by kylansmommy09 at 7:29 PM on May. 9, 2011

  • That's all that matters is respect from a man to a woman and it sounds like your daughter picked out the right young man. I hear that you are a very proud mom to show off your daughter and her boyfriend. I hope you share your nice words to his parents. I'll be proud to hear those words if I was his mom

    Answer by bmwlover at 7:30 PM on May. 9, 2011

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