A couple months ago, I briefly talked to another man. Talked--that is it. There was nothing more. No sex, no emotions, etc. I called it off after a few days, but I didn't tell my husband about it. I felt horrible about it in general, and just because I did it behind his back.
Anyway, my husband found out after looking at the call log (I was not hiding it from him) and I almost feel relieved with it off my conscience but now there is a huge break of trust. We are working through it... But I just feel awful.
Over the past year, there have been THREE separate times when I found him talking to other women (and lied about it). Just like in my situation, as far as I know, it was just talking. But with one, the intention was there to meet up and have a 'date' (dinner, skating... and then who knows). I was mad for a short period of time, but I guess now I feel like he is treating me harshly. I deserve it I know... I'm not denying it or taking away from his feelings, but I guess I don't understand how he can literally have to convince himself to stay. I never once (even after the three incidents) had to talk myself into staying with him. My husband even talked to the guy who also confirmed we just talked.
Please no snarky comments... I just want some words of encouragement. Anyone worked through anything similar or worse? Anything is appreciated.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:50 AM on May. 10, 2011 in Relationships
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