The only reason I was even considering having another kid is because I really thought my SO wanted another one.. Until he blurted out last night that it'll give me 'something to do'.. I'm a SAHM of a 3 year old. He said he'll stop wanting another kid if I find a hobby, or get more friends.. to bide my time. Maybe I'm being extra sensitive or pre-menstrual.. but this seems like a WRONG reason to have another kid, especially if I was set on having just one. I'm very confused, and don't know what to do.
It almost seemed like an ultimatem.. I didn't realize I was so 'bored' at home until he mentioned it! I'm doing a great job at raising our daughter, cleaning, cooking! What do I do???
Asked by Anonymous at 1:19 PM on Dec. 5, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by pinkclover at 1:30 PM on Dec. 5, 2008
I do not think we should have children so we will have something to do. When you are ready, you will know. Hopefully he will understand
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