My ex of 5 years tried to connect with me on facebook a couple of weeks ago and I ignored him completely. I have been married for 1 1/2 years now to a wonderful man.
Well I don't know how my ex got my number but he started texting me. I told him to leave me alone and he sent me a picture of a picture and it was a picture of me. I was 18 in the picture and I gave him a sexy pic of me in some lingerie.
I hadn't changed much since the pic was taken and he called me and said that he was going to tell my husband that I sent this pic to him. Well he did and my husband hit the roof. I tried to explain to him that it was a long time ago and he means nothing to me now and he was so mad that he stormed out of the house. He said he needed time to think this over.
I got a call from my cousin who is a police officer and he said my husband was in jail for beating up my ex. I feel so ashamed of the whole thing. The whole town is talking and my husband stands by what he did and he said that he had to beat the truth out of him. He believes me that I don't love my ex but the whole thing is so embarrassing.
How can I show my face in this community again? I already got a restraining order on my ex but me and hubby are still rocky. How do we get over this?
Asked by Anonymous at 6:44 PM on May. 10, 2011 in Relationships
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Answer by kkbird at 6:55 PM on May. 10, 2011
Wow, sounds like something my husband would do, can't say I really blame him, that would piss anyone off! You didn't do anything wrong, so you hold your head high. Doesn't seem like it now but this will all blow over, just give your hubby some time to think about things, he loves you and he's hurt but I think he will see it for what it is! As for the Community, like I said it will blow over just go about your everyday routine, I'll bet a lot of them would do the same thing if they we're in that position! I'll bet your ex learned a very hard lesson! Hang in there!
Answer by anichols1 at 6:56 PM on May. 10, 2011
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