My husband wants more children but I've always told him I only want one and after being pg for those 9 months and ending up in the ob 5 times for my high blood pressure and going through delivery with no meds i dont want more. I love my 5 month old she is the greatest thing in the world and he just doesnt respect that i dont want more. Every night he ask's me if i thought about it but no i havent is that wrong of me should i just give in to make him happy? Sure we could afford another but i just feel like one is enought maybe when she is 18 sure ill be 40 but not till then. why doesnt he understand where im coming from?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:33 PM on Dec. 5, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by lisa_ann_p at 3:37 PM on Dec. 5, 2008
Answer by figaro8895 at 3:40 PM on Dec. 5, 2008
Answer by louise2 at 3:42 PM on Dec. 5, 2008
I think he needs to give you more time. You just gave birth 5 months ago. I don't know too many women who would be ready to talk about or even have another child 5 months after giving birth. In the end...if you don't want anymore then he should respect your decision. I would say the same thing if you were the one wanting more and he didn't. A marriage is made by two people and so are the decisions.
Answer by Southerncharmes at 3:50 PM on Dec. 5, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 4:04 PM on Dec. 5, 2008
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