For the last week he tells me i don't do anything, other than sit on my ass and go on the computer until my kids need me for something. That is untrue and i so want to make him on a day he has off watch our kids for 8hrs plus baby sit other kids too.
he wakes up at 4:30am and gets ready for work which he needs to be there by 5am. He insists on being be very rude to me in the morning. He turns on the light to wake me up purposly, slams the door before he leaves. then i am up until 6am and fall back to sleep for an hr. ANd half the time i can't even get any sleep since he snores like a damn bear.
my day starts at 7:15am where i have to get up feed my 7month old, get him dressed for the day, then go get my 3 year old and get him dressed. Go downstairs get breakfast for my 3 year old and let my 7month old eat cherrios while i go shower. By 9am i am meeting my husband for his luch break. Where then after his lucnh i go get things i need around the house wheather it is wipe for cleaning or toothpaste. I get home then time for me to make lunch for my kids around 11:30AM. I then clean them up and do the dishes. By 12:30pm one of the kids i watch come in so i then babysit and around 12:30pm i am feeding my 7month old a bottle and putting him down for a nap by 1pm. I come back down get snack ready by 2pm and read stories until 2:30pm. At 2:30pm i lay the kids down for their nap so that way when he gets home he doesn't have to watch them while i go get a kid from school. By 3pm i leave to go get the kid from school, bring him to my house and let him play outside until mom comes. By 4pm i am feeding my 7month old his food and making supper. by 4:30 and 5pm we are eating supper. I then clean up the table and the kids, do the supper dishes, and if nice out i let my 3 year old by the neighbors to play with his friend. I even go over there to help her out. I come back by 6pm and again feed the baby his food, give our oldest his pediasure. By 7pm i am getting jammies on and by 7:30pm giving my baby his bottle for bed. And 7:45pm i am reading bed time stories until husband goes up to say goodnight to the boys. by 8pm they are in bed and we can go shower together for a half hr to 20mins. we then get out, dry off and he goes and watches his show while i am then cleaning up toys from the kids, bottles. By 9pm we go to bed and watch the news for about 5mins. go to sleep before 9:30.
I also do his chores, like take the garabage out and pick up after him like when he leaves his socks in the middle of floor.
I cook, clean, sanatize, change diapers, take a kid potty, get kids ready for nap and bed, vaccum every day,
laundry every other day, do the a yard work and mow the lawn.
all he does is come home, goes on his computer watches a show, takes a nap, give the boys a bath on bath night. When i ask him for help he argues and says i pay the bills u stay at home all day u do it.
I don't know if i should give him dose of his own medicine and give him a wake up call. Right everything all down (he has offf every other weds) leave at 5am and make him do all the work for the first time. Maybe if i do that maybe he will realize i need sleep and time away.
I mean i even get up in the middle of the night if one of the kids wake up.
Today i am no sleep because of him, the baby and the cats and a phone beeping. SO when i went to go meet him i am almost went in the ditch about 5times, almost got hit by on a semi truck. i tell him and he goes good now u know what it feels like with no sleep and serves u right for waking me up. may i add our sons were in the car, if anything would of happend all of us would be in the hospital right now. he gave me no sympthy for our kids or me.
what do u all think
Asked by Anonymous at 2:30 PM on May. 11, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by zoejains_momma at 2:34 PM on May. 11, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 2:37 PM on May. 11, 2011
Answer by notjstasocermom at 2:43 PM on May. 11, 2011
Answer by lucky35 at 2:45 PM on May. 11, 2011
Answer by Ttcbabyclegg at 2:46 PM on May. 11, 2011
Answer by MeandMyBabes at 3:08 PM on May. 11, 2011
Answer by Strenght203 at 4:21 PM on May. 11, 2011
Answer by monstersmommy20 at 10:48 PM on May. 11, 2011