and he cannot have me. Not right now and probably not ever. We are both married, and please don't bash, it is not like we went out and had sex or anything. We have just become friends thru converstation and we connected so much that I am realizing that I am falling for him and based on his actions he was falling for me as well. I don't know what to do, we are both not really in love with our spouses, not like we should be anyways, but we will probably both stay out of a sense of loyalty to our families esp. our kids. We both overdo the politeness to ensure we don't discuss our feelings that way we can delude ourselves into pretending it is not happening. I never planned on this, but it is so hard not to be able to do anything about it. Has anyone ever dealt with this before or gotten past that person? Need some different perspectives please!
Asked by Anonymous at 4:17 PM on May. 11, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by agrafel at 4:40 PM on May. 11, 2011
Answer by amazinggrace83 at 4:19 PM on May. 11, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 4:25 PM on May. 11, 2011
Honestly,and people don't wanna hear it, you need to cut it off! If you have no intention in leaving your husband, your setting yourself for a deeper heartbreak! The longer you stay involved, the stronger your feelings will become and I don't see how this is going to end on a good note. It's very hard I know, but the energy your putting in this other man is better to be put toward your husband and you.. I understand this other man is making you feel good but unless you plan on giving up your marriage and hurting your children, your waisting your time !
Answer by anichols1 at 4:33 PM on May. 11, 2011
Answer by mkdirector2011 at 4:28 PM on May. 11, 2011
i think the best way to get past/over this would be to stop communication with this person but of course it will be hard only time will make it better Good LuckMOMMY!
Answer by kylansmommy09 at 5:32 PM on May. 11, 2011
Answer by kkbird at 6:08 PM on May. 11, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 4:43 PM on May. 11, 2011
Answer by ImaginationMama at 4:56 PM on May. 11, 2011
Answer by meooma at 5:10 PM on May. 11, 2011
Next question overall
Is anyone else bored with facebook and their cheesy addictive games?