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I want a more exciting sex life! adult content

Sex with my dh is vanilla at best. I have tried to give him ideas and suggestions as to what we can do, but he always reverts to his same old habits. I have done different things, bought different things, and still he goes back to his boring ways. I don't know how to get him to do more. I am feeling like I am really wanting to enjoy my sex life and I am dealing with a dud in bed. Any suggestions?

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Asked by Anonymous at 4:26 PM on May. 11, 2011 in Relationships

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  • You and me both!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:28 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • You need to talk to him, maybe he is uncomfortable with trying new things. Suggest new things you can try, get books movies to help him visualize the move or positions.

    Answer by booger14 at 4:33 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • GL!

    Answer by mamawilbur at 7:21 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • how old are you?

    Answer by Suzi at 7:22 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • easiest way to add some spice to your sex life is to introduce toys. I don't know any guy that would be turned off at the introduction of a shaky-thing or handcuffs..... You can order the stuff online and surprise him with it!

    Answer by Molly4630 at 8:06 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • old enough.......35!

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 9:07 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • yes with another man
    YES YES I undersatand YOU What ever its is your situation Always THINK THINK and have a
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    ¸.•´ (¸.•´ * Happy Thursday !!

    Answer by GlitteribonMom at 1:11 PM on May. 12, 2011

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