I decided to find a job, no more sahm. I have been a SAHM for 4 years, she is old enough to do preschool/daycare and she really wants to go. She is an only child so it will be good for her to have more playmates. I am a little saddened though....I'll be going off all day working while someone else takes care of my little girl. I am also worried like ohhh is that daycare worker watching them closely! hehe.
I need to do this...for myself because I have become isolated a bit and I have 0 friends my age. All of my friends are toddlers :-) I need to do it for my marriage, he wants help with the finances and he does not respect housewives as much as some people...he sorta looks at it like I got the easy end of the deal. (no point in arguing that with him, he seems to think the house stays clean all by itself and she learned the abc's mysteriously on her own one day lol) I also want a bit more independence cause he can't get past looking at the money as HIS money, not OURS lately so fine, I'll start pitching into the account then he can shush about all of that.
How did you transition from SAHM to working again?
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