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Am i racist bc i dont date white guys?

My WHITE guy friend told me im racist bc i only date black men.. i have dated white men infact i dated a white man after having 2 black kids lol. But hes so stuck on me being racist bc i prefer black men.. I asked him how am i racist if im white. His answer? Im not white im jewish lol.. i am but w.e only half

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 6:44 PM on May. 11, 2011 in Just for Fun

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  • I'd say its more like closed mindedness but you did say you have been with a white guy so therefore I'd say its more judgemental on your part, did I use the correct word there!?
    Mel30248

    Answer by Mel30248 at 6:45 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • You prefer black guys. No biggie, I don't think you're a racist.
    jeanclaudia

    Answer by jeanclaudia at 6:45 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • Sounds like he is an idiot. You are not racist because you date only black men. That is the dumbest thing I have ever heard. As long as you are treated with respect and love who cares who you date.
    tyfry7496

    Answer by tyfry7496 at 6:46 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • No I'm Italian and I don't date black men. Not racist just never dated one. My husband is Puerto Rican.
    MLM0503

    Answer by MLM0503 at 6:46 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • It's just your preference. I don't see how that makes you racist. I've never dated a white man either, but I've certainly been attracted to some. If I was single and dating, I wouldn't turn down a sexy white guy :)
    Raccoon

    Answer by Raccoon at 6:50 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • We all have 'types'. My husband is not attracted to dark skinned women, at all. Not just black women, but all darker tones- including over-tanned! He doesn't not like them as people or care what they do in life... he's just not sexually turned on by them. Being racist is if you think less of a person because of their skin tone, not if you'd date one or not.
    HistoryMamaX3

    Answer by HistoryMamaX3 at 6:55 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • I prefer black men and I'm white. I just find them more attractive, everyone has their own preference. It doesn't mean you're racist at all
    June_Mama09

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 6:55 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • It's your preference. No biggie. If your friend dated a white guy, you wouldn't freak out... right?!? Preference. Just like how some people will not date heavy people or bald ones.
    Jakesmommie

    Answer by Jakesmommie at 7:00 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • its just your preference, youre not racist
    leksismommy

    Answer by leksismommy at 7:04 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • Not any more so than a woman who prefers to date white men.
    scout_mom

    Answer by scout_mom at 9:33 PM on May. 11, 2011

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