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He lied and i am giving him a 2nd chance, how can i trust him again?

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Asked by sassy_brizzy at 10:31 PM on May. 11, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Thats ultimately up to you. No one can answer that because we dont know what he lied about and how serious the issue is to you. But if you're on here asking, probably not.

    Answer by thelovelymzbre at 10:33 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • It takes time to build trust. If you feel the relationship is worth it; just wait and have faith.


    Answer by Bostonsbest at 10:36 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • You can't.

    He'll do it again.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:39 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • a second chance because of what he cheated?

    no second chance for that one
    that is non negotiable

    Answer by amparoortega at 10:39 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • Well I am not sure what he lied about or who he is, but any rebuilding of trust takes time. However, one thing I have learned is if you decided to try again and rebuild trust, you have to leave the past where it belongs. If you are going to keep bringing it up, then you were not ready to rebuild anything.

    Answer by Acemom25 at 10:51 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • You have to decide not to forget, but to put it behind you if you want to work it out. He has to understand that you have the right to be suspicious and if you need to check up things on times. If you give a second chance you have to really make an effort to try to leave it behind and be happy.

    Think about getting some counseling to get new skills to work it out.

    Answer by Sofiabug at 11:01 PM on May. 11, 2011

  • get revenge
    YES YES I undersatand YOU What ever its is your situation Always THINK THINK and have a
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    ¸.•´ (¸.•´ * Happy Thursday !!

    Answer by GlitteribonMom at 12:52 PM on May. 12, 2011

  • no trust available

    Answer by GlitteribonMom at 3:37 PM on May. 21, 2011

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