My ex(father of our daughter) and I have been broken up for 5 months. He never showed interest in me and when I broke it off with him all he cared about was seeing our daughter. I started seeing another guy (seeing, not dating) and all of a sudden he wanted me back and became a creeper. Coming over all the time and looking in the window before he'd knock, leaving me notes and even carved I love you in the wood on my back porch. I want to be friends with my ex so i don't flaunt my new guy in front of him or anything. My ex sent fb messages to the new guy telling him to stop stealing his family and putting things on his car when he would come over and just weird stuff.
A couple days ago my ex tried to kill himself. A dramatic night with a horrific phone call and having to go over and see him dying on the floor. He is fine now, out of the hospital and getting help... but do I stop seeing this other guy? I want to be there for my ex WITHOUT making him think I want him back. And I want to keep seeing my new guy without it making my ex want to literally kill himself.
What would you ladies do?
By the way.. I am a normal person who has had a normal life up until 5 months ago. I feel like a crack head hick talking about all this crazy stuff going on!!
Answer by ShainaMay at 2:28 AM on May. 12, 2011
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