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This lady said she was only "with" 4 people, my SO and I have been with lots more, how many people are people normally with??

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:07 AM on May. 12, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Well I don't want to put my number all out there lol but it's definatly been more then 4....but I went through a slutty stage in my early 20's so....yeah

    Answer by Lucky209 at 2:09 AM on May. 12, 2011

  • I wonder that too. I feel like my number is high (I, too went through a slutty stage) Mine has to be between 20 and 30 people. But I feel gross thinking about that now since I've grown up and would never sleep around!

    Answer by dbodani at 2:13 AM on May. 12, 2011

  • There's no average number that i'm aware of. I think it's a generational thing. The older generations probably have lower numbers since sex wasn't quiet as prevalent in the media the way it is now, and being a taboo subject, the sluts (male AND female) probably kept it hush hush. My generation (the 20 somethings) probably have higher numbers. I personally can't even count because I don't remember a lot of them...they were pretty meaningless encounters!

    Answer by ShainaMay at 2:13 AM on May. 12, 2011

  • my # is 50 and my SO's # is 80--- there I broke the ice--people can but there #'s on anon.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 2:17 AM on May. 12, 2011

  • Ummm... lol more than 4...

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 2:18 AM on May. 12, 2011

  • Just one for me. My husband has been with eight girls before me.

    Neither of us are prudes, we just got lucky and found each other young. And it is not like we are going to go out and have sex with more people now.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:29 AM on May. 12, 2011

  • 10. I didn't meet my husband until I was 24 (I was a "serial monogamist," so from age 16 to 24 I averaged about a new sex partner every 8 months or so. Doesn't sound as bad if I put it that way!)

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:54 AM on May. 12, 2011

  • 8 guys, 1 female. Dh's number is around 80.

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:27 AM on May. 12, 2011

  • My number is 10, and I have no idea how many DH has been with. We never asked one another, but my guess would be more than 50 less than 100. No clue what's common, but I doubt ours are.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:08 AM on May. 12, 2011

  • I cant believe people are "with" so many people. I am only in my 20's and have been only with my husband. Do people not know or just dont care of the nasty things they can get. Seriously that is just nasty!

    Answer by Ashley-England at 10:58 AM on May. 12, 2011

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