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I had my son when i was 16 and I think I was ment to have him because If it wasnt for him I dont think I would be alive right no. I was going down a bad path and fast. But when I found out I was pregnant I straightened up and turn around. For that I thank him and I think I have a different bond with him then I do with my daughter. Is that wrong? Anyone feel this way or am I just weird?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 6:45 PM on Dec. 5, 2008 in Relationships

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  • No I dont think its wrong but you have to remember if he hadnt calmed you down then youre daughter would be here. That makes them both special.
    gemgem

    Answer by gemgem at 6:48 PM on Dec. 5, 2008

  • I feel the same way. I had my DD at 17 and she changed my whole life...for the better. I was going nowhere on the path I was on.
    LovinEveryDay

    Answer by LovinEveryDay at 7:01 PM on Dec. 5, 2008

  • thats funny since i was going down the wrong path is how i got pregnant as a teen.
    melody77

    Answer by melody77 at 8:23 PM on Dec. 5, 2008

  • No it's not wrong. I have a different bond with my dd than I do with my son. I have a different bond between my 2 dd's as well. They are different ppl. Timing is different (birth order, your maturity as a mom, etc). It's perfectly normal.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 10:01 PM on Dec. 5, 2008

  • It is perfectly normal...I bet you have a special bond with your daughter...it might be different but it is a bond! Relax..it';s okay you are not a bad mom/person
    BestMommie523

    Answer by BestMommie523 at 11:00 PM on Dec. 5, 2008

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