I'm 36, he's 46. I have a kid, he has none of his own and wants one really bad. We've been ttc for over a year now and nothing's happening. He was checked and it's not him. I'm going to see a fertility doctor in 2 months. I just feel bad because he is such a wonderful man and we want a baby really bad. And he tells me not to feel bad or worry but I can't help it. Has this happened to anyone? What did u do?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:33 PM on May. 12, 2011 in Trying to Conceive
Please don't beat yourself up about this. In our case we had the opposite situation (except neither one of us had a child). We tried IUI, IVF and went through hell (mostly me with all those hormones and shots). Finally the doctor told me that I could have a donor sperm and get pregnant, but I decided that I would rather adopt. To me it was more important to be a mom than to have a biological bond. It was the best decision I have ever made. I'm sure your husband doesn't blame you for this.
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