My ex and I have two totally different set of rules, okay more like I have rules and he has one rule: Don't bug him while he is on the computer or watching TV/playing his games (he is 28).
DD always comes back from visiting him in a pullup (shes 5 and a half!) with dirty clothes and this princess "I can do whatever I want to" attitude because her Dad just doesn't care enough to set up rules. it drives me nuts for 2-3 days until I can get her back to normal!
How do I get our rules and households on a close to the same page level without fighting with him?
When I bring up the pullup and the dirty clothes he get defensive and accuses me of being controlling and unfair to him because he can't figure out how to make sure she goes to the bathroom and get her dressed everyday.
What can I do? I'm about to go to the courts and ask that he gets no visitation or custody what-so-ever!
Asked by Anonymous at 9:47 AM on May. 13, 2011 in General Parenting
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