Every other weekend my two kids go to visit thier dad and my stepkids go on supervised visits with thier mom. So its just me, dh, and our twin boys at home. Usually dh plans for us to do something i.e. dinner or whatever. The two times a month that thier gone dh always says just try to look at it as a break. I always think i can do that until they actually go. The whole time i feel like im worrying on the inside i mean for god's sake my stepkids are on a SUPERVISED visit and it seems like every other time they go (the visits have to be at thier grandmother's house) the kids get some mystery illness that magically disappears the minute they are in the car on the way home. And my two i just worry because thier dad is kind of a moron he's a nice guy but im soooo grateful he got married because if it wasn't for his wife he wouldn't know what to do with kids. When we were together he was of no help to me taking care of the kids. So i am trying to enjoy the time but i just end up with racing thoughts of what kind of phone call am i going to get and what mystery illness my poor stepkids will have this time? Any suggestions are appreciated because of course my dh has NO problem using the time as a "break"
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