Try to make it short, but there's so much lol We have had a rough couple of days, not communicating properly. So 2 days ago I snapped at DH b/c DD projectile spit up breast milk all over herself, DH, and me as we were walking out the door for work. The first thing he does is run to clean himself up....I grabbed DD and cleaned myself afterwards. Ok I get that, my breastmilk probably kinda gross for him to be wearing. But my problem was when I said I need to give her a bath real quick, he says uh no just wipe her down we need to go, I got a little mad b/c she was so sticky and I felt bad for her. Then yesterday I was still grabbing stuff to load in the car and he put DD in the car (she's 4 mo) and came back in the house to grab his phone....OMG do you leave a 4 mo in the car alone? His response, it's not like we were at a gas station or anything....um I don't care where we are we don't leave her in the car by herself. We were loud all the way to work, I'm you can imagine, poor baby girl slept the whole way thank goodness. And then today he was talking about when we went and played poker and at a friend's house the other night and how his friend's gf cussed him out for telling her to quit talking and take her turn, she blew up on him in front of everyone.. I missed it b/c I ran to the store. But he thought it was hilarious she "put him in his place". I just looked at him and said, heaven forbid I talk to you that way, and if I did it in front of your friends you'd lock me out of the bleepin' house.
All that being said, we don't fight often, its just been a rough few days is all, but jesus when is it going to end. I just walked away after the last incident without giving him a chance to respond, but really I wanted to go on and on.
Thanks for listening.
Answer by MizLee at 1:30 PM on May. 13, 2011
Answer by Lucky209 at 1:35 PM on May. 13, 2011
Your welcome and hang in there......oh,yea.....don't forget.....men are born that way, they can't help being "DUH" LOL
Answer by Dahis at 1:28 PM on May. 13, 2011
Answer by MizLee at 1:28 PM on May. 13, 2011
Answer by Kari727 at 1:34 PM on May. 13, 2011
You really never know a man till you havea kid with him...I leave my kids in the car all the time to grab something out of the house..I leave the doors open and it's quick but I have 3 and it's just me usually...snapping at him for your frusteration will get no where..chances are he just tuned you out...you will not always agree on parenting and sometimes it can be the relationship wrecker...so you need to sit down with him and tell him what you expect of him and what you will not tolerate...like leaving the child in the car...it's a learning proccess for both of you...it will take time.
Answer by happymama02 at 1:37 PM on May. 13, 2011
Answer by PatriciaofMN at 7:13 PM on May. 13, 2011
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