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How would you react if you found out that not only is your brother a cross-dresser but he wants to be a women? adult content

I recently found out that my brother who is three years younger than I wants to be a women. I swear I never seen anything suspicious growing up. Maybe I missed something? Now my grandmother and mother are being so mean to him. Telling him to just get over it. I love him no matter what! I do not understand why people think you can just stop being who you are. How would you react? I just let him know I loved him and accept him for who he is. I am so mad at my family members for being so mean and intolerant.

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Asked by tinaandavasmom at 2:28 PM on May. 13, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I wouldn't care.. He would always be my blood whether he's a man or a woman.. I'd love him just the same. You are amazing for sticking by him!

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 2:29 PM on May. 13, 2011

  • I would be shocked....I would still love him though but I would be really confused...

    Answer by Brandi300 at 2:30 PM on May. 13, 2011

  • I would definatly be shocked but I would just let him know that this isnt going to change our relationship, that I love him no matter what and that he ever needs to talk, that I'm there for of course MY brother is a complete douche and we havent talked in 5 years so we would be having a whole other kind of conversation first lol

    Answer by Lucky209 at 2:30 PM on May. 13, 2011

  • I'd have a lot of feelings to sort through and a lot of questions for him, but I would be supportive. Your family will get over his choice in time.

    Answer by ABeaverhausen at 2:31 PM on May. 13, 2011

  • I'd hug him and wish him well.

    Answer by Bmat at 2:34 PM on May. 13, 2011

  • I'd be there for him, I would be surprised of course but love him none the less.

    Answer by MrsLLove at 2:35 PM on May. 13, 2011

  • Are you kidding? I'd go shopping with him. LOL! I don't have a sister. ;-)
    I would totally be supportive of whatever he felt like he needed to do.

    Answer by FluffyMamaBunny at 2:36 PM on May. 13, 2011

  • I wouldn't care. It has no reflection upon me. I rather him be that than a druggie, drug dealer, murder, rapist, pedophil, a MONSTER!! you know. I ain't that serious in the scheme of things.

    Answer by Jazmineamomma at 2:38 PM on May. 13, 2011

  • So nice to read some really good attitudes. After hearing so many ignorant things from my mom and grandmother, it's good to hear some positive things. My younger sister is very supportive of him too. She gives him hand me downs. I have no idea how we both became this tolerant after being raised my my intolerant mother. Ugh she makes me so mad. He actually made him cry!

    Comment by tinaandavasmom (original poster) at 2:41 PM on May. 13, 2011

  • Love, love, love.............I would never feel different about my brother.......I idolized him as a child.........and would support him no matter.

    Answer by Dahis at 2:44 PM on May. 13, 2011

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