So tired of the back and forth of argument in what a divorced birth mother says about the step mom and the step moms argument about the birth mom. It works both ways. Newly divorced mom raising hell about her ex husbands new gal and him spending money on her. He spent it on you right? You aren't in the picture of his life other then the kids. You need to realize that he is no longer with you. Move on.
Step moms need to stop raising hell about the birth mom calling the ex husband asking for money for THEIR kids. They have kids together and if you don't like that go and find a man that has no kids. You will always come second to those kids. Realize those kids were born before you got together. You should never make that father make a decision over you or his kids. It's not right. And if yo have kids with him, your kids should be an equal to his kids, not better, not first.
You both make it hard for each other. This is not about you, it's about the kids. Grow up and start acting like adults. If you would learn how to get along, the kids won't grow up to be screwed up, angry or continuing that circle of hate you both created because of your bitterness for each other. Either bite your tongue or get along.Answer Question
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