My SO is always sick & especially on the weekends we don't have my son. When we went on vacay just with him me & him while my son was spending Christmas with his father (it was his year legally) he was sick then too. Now, we've been planning this weekends plans for months now & just go happens its on a weekend I don't have my son & he's SICK AGAIN! I don't really know if he's truly sick. If he really is sick, I don't want to be mean and go any where w.o him. I'm starting to think he just really likes my attention bc when he's sick, I take good care of him. I do take care of him other times as well, but when he's sick, I "serve" him. If that makes sense? Like he lays in bed & I do everything for him. I think he isn't "sick" on the weekends I have my son bc he knows I won't be able to "care" for him like I would when I don't have my son. He isn't sick on the weekdays either, only extremely tired from work.
Should I try not giving him that much attention & see if he isn't "sick" anymore? I love him and don't want to go without him anywhere esp if he is truly sick. What to do ? We don't ever do anything. We truly don't besides when we have my son. He's always sleeping & "sick" when we don't. I'm so tired of being cooped up in the house & not having an adult personal life because he's always sick. I'm a mom and when I'm not being a mom (when my son's when his dad) I am taking care of my "sick" SO. Sorry had to vent.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:45 AM on May. 14, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 11:51 AM on May. 14, 2011
To me a person is not sick unless they have a temperature. A cold is not sick to me.
Do this. inform him if he does not have a temperature, he is not sick to you and you will not take care of him.
IMO, He is playing you. I would not put up with it.
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