I'll keep this as short as possible. I have 6 children, the 4 middle ones are from a guy I was glad to see the back of. He treated me like absolute sh1t. Trouble is that 2 of the kids I had with him were results of him raping me. They are also the spitting image of him. I have had persistant hassle from him since he got kicked out of mine. I also have constant battles with his 4 kids. Current situation has resulted in the toilet door being yanked so much it has come off the hinges. I have also had them sneaking to the kitchen in the middle of the night and stealing food (and before I get asked they always get plenty of food at mealtimes). I also have spotted my ex talking to a mate of his who then watched me as I walked by. Consequentally, I am now extremely paranoid and am constantly keeping the front door locked and chained. As a result of all this I am seriously considering giving the 4 kids I had with my ex to social services as everytime I look at them I can imagine my ex, so I won't be able to move on with my life and get over the trauma that I endured while with him. Please, please I ask only for advice and not criticism of any kind. I know that the kids can't help what their father was or how they were conceived but this is all driving me nuts. Thanks in advance for any help/advice that you ladies can provide.
P.S. my social services department are not keen to take the children. But I feel they dont understand the terror I'm feeling knowing he is still trying to cause trouble. They are (apparently) fully aware of the situation between myself and the ex but in their eyes they dont feel removing the 4 children would be the best thing to do. I suppose the only way for them to understand my situation would be for them to have been in the same situation themselves.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:07 PM on May. 14, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by louise2 at 12:15 PM on May. 14, 2011
Answer by Ati_13 at 12:15 PM on May. 14, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 12:16 PM on May. 14, 2011
How do you feel about these kids? You must love them? Are they in danger? I guess not knowing some details makes its hard for me to say just give up your kids because I'm not one that would normally say that but if you really feel that is what is best for them and you maybe you should. I am sorry that this has happened to your family and hope that everything gets worked out where everyone is in a safe place.
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