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Why is it that if a woman has a sexual relationship with another woman

BEFORE she met her husband, her husband would probably think that is the coolest and get turned on? But if a man had a sexual relationship with another man BEFORE he met his wife, his wife would either not marry him or think that's sick?

Just sayin'.........


Asked by Anonymous at 12:50 PM on May. 14, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • I have no idea. My DH says he would never do anything with another man, but he has no issues admitting that another man is attractive. Then again, the "ultimate" fantasy (as far as I know) is a threesome with one man, two women, so, my logic is, men must think if you've done it before, you'll do it again with them present.
    Then again, even if you haven't had relations with a woman (I haven't) men might still ask you for a threesome (DH did me). (The answer was NO, I'm not letting another woman near you!) (I know, I'm territorial, but we took a vow to forever be faithful to each other, and even if I'm there I still consider it cheating.)

    Answer by M.Galvan at 2:10 PM on May. 14, 2011

  • Because ass sex isn't a turn on?

    Answer by armywife2009101 at 12:52 PM on May. 14, 2011

  • The good old double standard!

    Answer by older at 12:52 PM on May. 14, 2011

  • Because it is far more then norm for women to experiment. Men tend to be more cautious with their sexuality because "what if" they like it. A sexual experiment for them is more likely an admission rather than "hey this seems like a fun thing to be doing."

    Answer by balagan_imma at 1:02 PM on May. 14, 2011

  • Because men are idiots who believe that porn is real?

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 1:21 PM on May. 14, 2011

  • I have dated a couple guys who did it with another man never was there so why do I care?

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 1:10 PM on May. 14, 2011

  • Guy-guy sex is in no way a turn on to me, I find it disgusting.

    Answer by scout_mom at 4:12 PM on May. 14, 2011

  • hahaha you are on the money

    Answer by ochsamom at 12:52 PM on May. 14, 2011

  • OMG that's funny armywife--but that still doesn't explain why the other is a turn-on?

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 12:53 PM on May. 14, 2011

  • If my hubby had told me he experimented with another man, it wouldn't have made a difference to me.... I have never been one to hold standards to one gender....

    Answer by kitchenwitch78 at 1:48 PM on May. 14, 2011