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Do you and your SO/ DH talk about sex and what you expect? adult content

Before you got together or married did you talk about what you would expect when you would have it how he feels or you feel about who initiates it?


Asked by pinkdragon36 at 1:20 PM on May. 14, 2011 in Relationships

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  • yea he said hes glad i get into it when we start but that i need to initiate way more often

    Answer by Liz4Life at 6:24 PM on May. 14, 2011

  • Not before we got married but it's an ongoing process learning each other's bodies, things change, we like to try to mix things up, we're always talking about sex and trying new things =)

    Answer by Lucky209 at 1:36 PM on May. 14, 2011

  • Nope, just did it and it worked out great.

    Answer by emmyandlisa at 1:24 PM on May. 14, 2011

  • It's something we talk about sometimes but not before we got together. It's like an ongoing conversation in small doses. We still have lots to talk bout though lol

    Answer by Nicoles2LilRams at 1:29 PM on May. 14, 2011

  • nope, we rarely get to see eachother so when we do were like rabbits lol

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 1:27 PM on May. 14, 2011

  • when i was married we talked about it.

    Answer by mrsary at 1:34 PM on May. 14, 2011

  • Nope, had we not been compatible in the intimacy department we would have never stayed together....Now we have "laughable" conversations that usually leaves one of us in fits of uncontrollable giggles and hot and bothered for the rest of the day....As for who initiates, that has never bothered me or him....whoever wants it more is the one who initiates the time foreplay is done, we both want it just as bad.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:44 PM on May. 14, 2011

  • No, but we have talked about it after we got together.
    The rule in our house is, no bitching that you want sex if you haven't tried to get any. If you want it, come and get it.
    We both go through phases where one may want it more than another.

    Answer by Candi1024 at 2:43 PM on May. 14, 2011

  • Communciation is the key to having a healthy realtionship no matter what the subject is.

    Answer by PatriciaofMN at 3:19 PM on May. 14, 2011

  • no we kinda just did it. lol. but after we were together for a while we did talk about stuff. but by then he knew what i liked and how.. and same for him. now we have been married 8 yrs and we have talked about cheating neighther of us have but talked about if we felt we needed to go else were we would talk to each other. i know better said then done but for me at least its been a great 8 yrs and i know dh still wants me..24/7. lol.

    Answer by tabbys4 at 4:27 PM on May. 14, 2011