Things are not working out between my my SO and I. I think I have had enough. I feel horrible but I think the best thing now is to move on. The thing is, I don't know how to move on. I have been with SO since I was 18 yo. I am now 27. I don't know what to do.
I don't have a car. I don't have a HS diploma ( I am currently enrolled in school, and trying to obtain my HS online). I don't have any work experience. I have been a SAHM since DS was born. We have 2 kids. I just don't know where to start. How do I leave? I have no where to go. I have no family or friends. It has all just been me, my SO and our kids. So now I have no one to turn to. Where do I start? How do I leave and get out on my own? I have absolutely nothing.
Edit to explain further....
I am so scared to leave, because SO is all I have ever known. But the thing is... I feel like he doesn't want me here. I am tired of being ignored. I am tired of not being one of his priorities ( I have certainly made him one of mine). He has done so much to make me feel this way. 1, being that I have tried counseling with him, and he didn't even care enough to go with me. 2. I am stuck in the house all day everyday. I have no one to talk to but my children. So when my SO is home, I feel a little relieved that he is going to be here because I just need someone to interact with. I just want to watch a movie or show or talk with him. But he refuses to do anything with me at all. If the kids are not here, he will go into the next room. If I go in there, he gets an attitude with me, or he will leave the room. Even on his days off, he would rather be doing something else or be somewhere else rather than to just spend just an hr with me. I keep telling him we should go out sometime. He tells me we will. The last time we have been out, My DS was 2. He is now 7 yo. All it takes is for me to call out his name, and he gets an attitude and yells at me " what?! I'm busy!" I think ok maybe later.. later I walk by him and he is watching a movie or star trek shows on his computer. So I wait until he is finished. Then later I realize he is not doing anything so I go and tell him, lets watch something. He gets mad and tells me he was about to do something else before I walked in there and said that. then his big something to do is either watching TV, playing with the kids ( which is fine, but all the time? I can't be included?), or doing some other things. I feel like he's avoiding me all the time. I really don't think he wants anything to do with me, yet he doesn't want me to leave him. Why? What am I here for? He would also sleep on the couch. I mean is this what a relationship should be like? From what I have seen it doesn't seem like it. I see happy couples all the time. Is that all just an illusion. Is everyone elses relationship like this?Answer Question
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