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I am doing this mostly to vent. But also to ask your opinions.
I met a wonderfully charming man 5 weeks ago. He is 28 and I am 25. We fell in love and everything was amazing. We shared so many romatic and beautiful moments together.
He told me several times that his ex girlfriend (whom is barely 20) keeps contacting him and begging him to come back. He ignored all her phone calls. She even lied about being pregnant to get him to call her back. When he did call her back she told him she had an abortion. She is just playing mind games to have him on a leash. From what his parents say and his friends and roomates say she is the most bipolar, crazy and dramatic woman on this earth. Everyone important in his life hates her and they love me. He tells me that he has never met a woman like me. I took his breath away... and he is falling in love with me.
So two weeks ago he decided to get back with his ex and leave me. He called me 3 days later and told me that he obviously still has feelings for this girl and he doesnt want to pursue anything with me until he is completely dont with her. He calls me every single day because he wants to keep me in his life because he has repeatedly told me how special I am and how much he knows that he is suppose to be with me. For some reason he cannot let go of this crazy girl. They break up and fight at least 3 times each week. She is insane.
What do I do?????? I am so lost I just don't know how to come to my senses... I need advice I need help. I am so completely falling in love with him and I am so captivated by him It hurts so much to lose him. I have been so depressed and miserable I hate this feeling. I know that I don't deserve to be put in second place especially since I am so much more beautiful inside and out. By the way she is FUGLY and I am pretty easy on the eyes lol. I KNOW its not based on looks... and Im POSITIVE its not personality because I have her beat on both.
Thank you ladies for all your support.
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