My dh and I are still young. He is 28 I will be 27 at the end of this year. We have 5 beautiful, smart and healthy children. I feel very blessed. I just started college and will be done right around the time my youngest starts school. I feel everything is right where it should be. I will be able to start my career, the kids will all be in school, and maybe a year or two after that we can start foster care (something we have always really wanted to do).... now I want to get fixed. I just feel things are perfect. We have 4 boys, and 1 daughter smack dab in the middle of all those boys. Yes part of me wants another girl, but I don't see it happening. And I want to be done so I can look into alabation (SP?) to help with my periods. We just had a miscarriage. I was good with the idea of having a baby before we lost it, but now that we have, I just want to be done. I don't want to wait another year, interrupt college and the flow of our life and be pregnant and miserable. DH says we are too "YOUNG" to make that decision. That he may want more kids.
IDK, how do we get passed this issue? I want to be done, because that procedure would really help me. My periods are sooo bad. Plus, we have 5 healthy kids... I just have this gut feeling that if we have another, we will be pushing our luck.
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