Wow! life is crazy... It's been so long since ive been on here... I had my baby boys... 38w1d... 6p2oz and 6p7oz ... My one son was born with cranial synostosis and required surgery... he had a strip of his skull removed in january and wears a helmet atm , but hopefully that will be off within the month. the father and broke up feb 1st , when he kept my son that had surgery, refusing to bring him home after a trip to the hospital... didnt feel like it... did bring him home the next day... but pulled the same stunt a month or so ago and kept him for 8 days... I had to get a court order to get him returned... flipping nuts... now hes trying for custody, is kinda po'd that i got a judge to order my sons return and yeah... being a bit of a prick... trying to pick apart anything i do form what i feed them to ... god anything... so yeah lots of stress... Im a single mom fo twin almost 7 month old babes and a 6 year old girl... how do we do it? I really dont know... ive been struggling through and somehow making it work , but feeling the wear lately... Im grumpy often, and hate myself for it when my daughter notices... I have no familly near by and yeah... all my girlfriends have babies of their own... so social activity is minimal... my one son is already crawling and standing up and moving across the playpen standing holding on to side... so proud but omg! too soon im not ready for this! lol Guess Im looking for advice, support, anything that can keep me going... any other single mommas out there with twin babies? care to share you experiences or any insights you have? I could use them...Answer Question
Answer by ElsaSalsaaa at 1:22 AM on May. 15, 2011
Answer by roxy0522 at 1:23 AM on May. 15, 2011
I am sorry! I can't really relate to the single mom of twins, but I do know that everyone has their good days and their bad! You are doing the best you can, and it sounds like you are doing everything right! I would try to just find a way to relax even if its only for 15 minutes a day! I stay up til almost 3 am some times because it is the only way I can have "me time", and even though I miss alot of sleep I always feel better in the morning! I hope things get easier, and your ex stops being a d**k! Your doing great mama, and your babies will know how hard you worked and they will love and appreciate you for it!
Answer by Mikayla_lynn at 1:26 AM on May. 15, 2011
Answer by sassy21176 at 10:12 AM on May. 15, 2011
Answer by sassy21176 at 10:27 AM on May. 15, 2011
Answer by KColeman90 at 6:29 PM on May. 15, 2011
Answer by TWOpeazINaPOD at 11:28 PM on May. 15, 2011
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The bean dip method and assert myself method didn't work. What else you got?